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What is so Thrilling about Love?
Stop. Look at your thumb, now take a closer look. It looks like any other thumb right. Wrong.
Your Love is as unique as your thumbprint, yours is the only one like that in the entire world.

Have you thought about what it is regarding love that is so unique?

Love is custom made, unique experience for each one of us. Our experience of love is unique for each one of us. Your love cannot be objectively compared to someone else's love. Love's meaning is changed by your mood, your current needs, your past experiences, and your interpretation of what constitutes loving action in various situations and depending on what you are chasing after.

Love is in scarce and is often hard to pin down.
Love is not a tangible, it cannot be saved up for a rainy day. You can’t put it in the bank for tough times. Circumstances alter, and people change, they also move on and they all in time pass away. Understand that Love is [affected on other people’s responses and their moods too. But Love is worth most to us when we receive it unearned and unasked for.

Love is almost impossible to define, and Love is impossible to measure, Love is personal to you, and Love cannot be controlled. Love means more to us in time of need, and that’s when we least feel free to ask for love. When we have to request love, it often seems less valuable, as though this love had been grabbed, rather than freely offered.

People will do anything to get love
They will attempt to purchase , bash, beg or beguile to get it.
most of us are pursuing riches and success, without realizing that it is in all likelihood experiencing love that we are needing from our success. People will attempt to “buy” the love of others with gifts and favors. They will attempt to impress, manipulate or seduce, to make others, to love them back. Sometimes they will even beg in order to obtain compassion or pity. People will demand love, and attempt to control them, to ensure their attentions and in so doing capture their love too.

Love is largely misunderstood and often abused.
In the name of love many crimes and personal atrocities are committed each day. Some people even use our duty to love them, against us. Trying to control us, to obligate us, or to abuse us, so that they obtain what they desire. Selfish lust is often promoted to us as “love”, and unless we know what the real love is, we will become mixed up and/or cheated. Even religious people may at times be guilty of leveraging our obligation to love God and the church, for their personal gain. It boils down to someone saying “ If you are really loving, you will do what I ask of you.” Be very careful of that one.

Love triggers our feelings – big time.
Few other experiences can Drive the emotional peak that “falling in love” does. It makes everything seem like heaven. And losing it, can just as easily make everything seem like hell. Love can produce princes out of paupers, but love that is lost can demoralize even its strongest victims like a marshmallow in a vice. The insecurity of an approaching love relationship can take even the strongest amongst us on an emotional roller-coaster ride, second to none.

Love stirs all kinds of feelings – satisfying, exciting, happy feelings when it comes. Elation that brings joy, juice and delight. It makes life’s circumstances seem so much easier to endure, and life worth rejoicing in, but when it evaporates or is absent it may leave behind feelings of alone-ness, emptiness, sadness and even gloominess. Just listen to the current popular music and notice what they sing about. They sing about all the emotions that surround love and the desire for love, or they have the blues about the loss of their love.

Love desires to sets us free
Love’s goal is always to seek the increasing freedom of the beloved. And the goal of freedom is always to give people the freedom to choose: "to love or not to love". Love that tries to intimidate or control a person against their will is not really love at all, is it?

Love is special and unique for you. Enjoy it that way. Take a minute to thank God now for giving you your unique experience of love .

Until next time this is Pierre Basson saying
“No-one feels love quite like you do, because you are special!”
Pierre Basson is the author of the book "Making Love Work" a journey into finding real love in our lives. Find more of his articles at www.living4loving.com .
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