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I'd like to welcome you to today's fun-filled edition of Flirting with Women Online - another astonishing, astounding article full of information for you, my faithful reader.

According to the 80/20 rule, 20 percent of one's work makes up 80 percent of the visible outcome. So let's use this concept to consider Internet dating. Twenty percent of effort brings eighty percent of results. If that is really the case, it would seem obvious that the most important thing to consider is where to use that twenty percent. (re-reading the title of this in search of an answer is unfair).

It's true, you should focus that 20% effort into your personal profile, photograph and initial e-mail. That will set the mood for the woman you are going to "approach" online. Success is nearly guaranteed from this point on if you merely avoid stupid mistakes. (Don't worry, I'll address that issue in future posts).

That was the scholarly message for today. OK, now for the nuts and bolts. How can you turn a mere 20-percent effort into whopping 80-percent returns? The first thing you must do is write a really great profile about yourself, put some nice photos in and write a dazzling first email.

All of these topics will be dealt with in depth later but for now I will give you basic ideas.

1. The most important thing is to let your true personality shine through in your profile. Ladies (and, in reality, everyone) connect with you according to your personality. Scrutinizing a person's personality is comparable to the canine behavior of butt-sniffing. I know you may think its gross, but it actually has a point. She wants to know who you are and not just what you do. Therefore do not provide a list of what you like or do. Let her see who you really are. Describe the best aspects of your job. Why do you do the things you like to do? Like a dog, you have to turn around and give her a whiff of who you really are. (of course, I am just speaking metaphorically)!

2. Keep your profile clean and clear of any spelling or grammar errors. You could always have someone read it for mistakes or you could use a spelling and grammar checker on it. Refine it.Shine it up. Perfect it. Why on Earth would you send an error-riddled resume to a company for a job that you covet? Same thing here.

3. Get some quality pictures of yourself that you can put online. This may cost a pretty penny, but in the end it will pay for itself. So, take the bull by the horns, and just do it!

4. In your first email to her make sure to show her a little bit of your personality. Avoid excessive flattery. If you do, you will appear to be trying too hard. However, you need to stand out in your emails to her. Don't send the same old lines that she is used to seeing from every other guy. If you want her to write back, pique her interest by adding sarcasm, being witty or by adding tasteful humor.

Now, that should get your mind moving. NO? Well then ... Here's an idea! Get yourself an extension cord and a pair of scissors. Cut the extension cord in two, and plug it in! Do you get the idea? If all of that doesn't get you rolling, I couldn't possibly help you any further.

Disclaimer: Please do not plug in half of an extension cord. Even though I know I'm saying the obvious and you're smart enough to know better, I have to say this. Don't even think about it. All right, the disclaimer has officially ended.

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