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Male orgasm denial must be one of the most misunderstood, yet also one of the most erotic sexy games you can incorporate into your relationship.

Taking the idea at face value, you'd suppose it was completely bizarre and strange and no man would ever consent to let you stop right at that "point of no return" and keep him waiting - often for days, weeks, and months on end... and with some men and women, even longer than that.

And we're all aware how much men love their orgasms, don't we? Truth be told... for most men, sex is synonymous with their orgasm, and according to a few anthropologists, the male orgasm has been the basic driving force behind much of our evolution (in human society, men with the greatest "status" get the "most desirable" mates... and "status" is often seen as owning a bigger stock of scarce resources, like land, property and money).

So, what is male orgasm denial, why would any man agree to it, and why would women want to "inflict" it on her husband?

As the name implies, it merely means the man consensually yields control of his orgasm to another - usually his wife or girlfriend - and doesn't get to enjoy one without her say-so.

Just how it's "enforced" depends on the dynamics of their marriage and methods range from simple agreement (where the man is on his "honour" not to orgasm) all the way through 24/7 captivity in a steel chastity device (which is how I keep my husband, John, entirely by his consent).

And there, in a nutshell (forgive the pun), we have it!
So...

Why Would Men Accept Male Orgasm Denial?

Well, strange as it may seem it actually improves their sex lives. It's important to note it does NOT mean couples don't have sex. They often do. In fact, they often have MORE sex than they had before they started the practice, and they have it more often. The difference is the man doesn't orgasm and so the focus of his attention is now on the woman rather than himself.

Contrary to popular belief, men often actually enjoy this aspect more than any other - because they really do like to please us women (hard to believe at times, I know).

A second reason men will agree to male orgasm denial is it's the closest thing they're ever going to get to a woman's multiple orgasm. They're not giving up the pleasure of their orgasms... they're savouring them. And when they eventually do get to have one... my oh my... see the fireworks!

Finally...

Why Would Girlfriends Desire to "Impose" It on Their Husbands?

The answer to this, to a degree, is much the same as the answer to the question above, but from the other direction: better sex, and lovemaking more often. Most women might laugh peevishly and groan a little at the thought of having more sex... but only because sex nowadays is not coming up to scratch.

Truth is, it's highly likely the benefits of strict male orgasm denial will rapidly increase YOUR libido, too.

Why?

Because he'll naturally become more loving, devoted, intimate and emotionally connected to you, which are all things the majority of women complain are absent in their men.

In short, your relationship is going to become closer - it's going to be very much like it was in those early-days when you were first together, but with the additional benefit of your having built that solid emotional bond. You get to have your cake and eat it, in other words.

To Summarise

It's true it won't be for every man and woman and won't necessarily be the right choice for every relationship, but if you're essentially happy together and you are open to the thought of having a go at something new to get those fires of lust and passion burning once more, then having some fun and giving male orgasm denial a go.

Sarah Jameson, avid devotee of the advantages of harsh and inflexible male orgasm denial, and the woman behind the Male Chastity Blog is a happily married woman and freelance writer. She first was introduced to male orgasm denial almost three years ago, and now writes extensively about it to promote awareness and help educate other men and women about this profoundly satisfying but mostly misunderstood lifestyle choice. She keeps her husband, John, with his agreement in long-term male orgasm denial for months on end.
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